0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

*

Offline promise

  • *****
  • 139
  • Deskmate is cool ,,, !
  • City: Harare
  • Current Education: University
How to motivate your self
« on: March 14, 2016, 02:23:01 PM »
Many students report a lack of motivation and difficulty getting started with their study. It is often because of what they are telling themselves. These are negative or destructive thoughts such as “I’ll never get it done”, “I can always do it later”, ”I’m not really a good student”, etc. The internal dialogue we have with ourselves is very influential on our emotions and behaviours. Try to identify why you feel you have poor motivation. The next time you feel a lack of motivation, try writing down what you are thinking and feeling at the time.

The following are some motivational strategies you may want to experiment with to improve your level of motivation. They are also good to use in conjunction with other strategies such as time management.:

    Focus on Effort

    Alter Expectations
    Changing Thoughts to Change Motivation
    Use Positives to Encourage Negatives

    Focus on Effort

    Focus on the effort you are putting into your study rather than the results. You are able to judge your own effort easier than results. Improvements in effort occur before improvements in results, thus it is more motivating to continue to try harder. However, improvements in effort usually lead to improvements in results. Attribute failures to a lack of effort and attribute successes to your ability.

 
    Alter Expectations

    Bad study habits, or the lack of good ones, do not change overnight. Keep at it because changes take time. Take small, manageable steps. You want to be successful in the changes you make otherwise it is much too easy to give up. Success breeds success. If you achieve one small change or improve in one tiny area you develop the impetus to try something a little bigger or harder next time and are much more likely to succeed.

    Think in terms of want to do (internally driven motivation) instead of what you feel you should do (externally imposed rules). Our beliefs in what we “should” do are developed as we grow up. “Should” is a very intimidating and overused word that often has a de-motivating effect. For example, a parent might say “you should study, you should do better” we learn that “studying and doing better” are adult values. However, as a youngster the student might feel like going to his/her room and listening to music, which they can do while pretending to study. Eventually they might learn that it is easy to ignore the “should message” but not the guilt about not living up to adult values. Reframe “should messages” in terms of what you want – “I want to study so I do better on my chemistry exam, which would make me feel good about myself”. Learn from your mistakes. No one is Perfect!

   
    Changing Thoughts to Change Motivation

    Identify destructive thoughts that are inhibiting your study. When you find yourself thinking these thoughts, tell yourself to STOP! (under your breath of course!). This is called “thought stopping”. Immediately replace with some constructive thoughts. It is best to have a standard list of these that are well rehearsed and can be used whenever necessary. Examples:
        I have been successful at my study this week - keep up the good work”
        “I really understood that lecture/paragraph/chapter”
        “I am able to concentrate and will do even better tomorrow”

    They need to be realistic and tailor-made so that you believe them. Redirect your attention back to the study task.

    Use Positives to Encourage Negatives

    Use Positives (rewards) to Encourage Negatives (things you don’t want to do). Study your favourite subject right after you have studied your least favourite. Use a reward after you have achieved a study goal. For instance you can:
        congratulate yourself
        read a novel or play a game
        use food such as sweets or gum
        draw or go for a run
        make a phone call or write a letter
        use mental rewards like imagining a pleasant scene or daydreaming

    When choosing a reward, make sure they are tailor made to suit you (what is rewarding for one may not be for another) and make sure they are easily available. What makes a reward nice is that it is something extra. If you did not achieve your goal, no reward! You are responsible.
i thought success was about passing school but i now see that its your mindset

 



Deskmate 3.0 © 2016, Deskmate by Tremmly.com